So why do parents have to criticize you about everything? I know that they love us and everything, but it seems as though my parents are telling me to settle for any job I can get. I already have a summer job, and I just graduated and am looking for one in my field. Though it seems as though they are always hounding me, even though they have no idea about how hard I am working to find another job while I have this one...I mean seriously why do I want to stay in a house that people criticize me all the time? I don't. Also I have been having them hound me on my weight. Though working in retail, not having time to really eat anything, not being able to sit, and moving all the time at a fast pace isn't good enough for them. Seriously why is this happening? I don't understand why my parents have to hound me constantly I am almost 24 and you would think I would be able to make decisions for myself.
At this point I would take any job just so I can move out and be outside of the house. As a Christian I shouldn't get upset with others and I should honor my parents, but honoring isn't always agreeing with them, and it is respecting their decision enough to take it into consideration. But at the end of the day I have to do what is best for me, what I have prayed about and gotten an answer, and still understand and respect where my parents are coming from. It just upsets me when I have to hear every day that I am overweight and need to work out, and I feel as though they are hounding me and calling me fat. Seriously, and they wonder why I eat? Maybe it is because they hound me and are after me all the time, I feel that my life is at a stand still, and they don't respect my decisions. Does anyone else have this problem?
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